Shock and Oz

Four months ago, 2 weeks after our 22nd wedding anniversary, my husband announced to me that he was leaving me for a co-worker 30 years younger than himself (he's 51, she's 21) because he loves her, wants to be with her and has so much in common with her.  I did not sleep or eat for 10 days.  I was cast into an emotional tornado and have only recently begun to find my footing again in the terrible wonderful land of Oz.  Nothing is as I've ever known it, nor ever wanted to know it.  But grace abounds.